No, we do not want to be traditional and predictable. We do not want to fight the Consequences while the Reason calmly “rests” on the bed of general indifference. We challenge the Reason!
We call on the World, our planet to join us! Everyone who cares about what we will write now in an open message to the sentient beings of the Earth, join us!
No matter how old you are; no matter what position you occupy in society; no matter what color your skin is!
Stand next to us, we urge you to revolution!
We claim that this revolutionary movement will overwhelm our planet! Do not believe? Then let's see if you remain indifferent to what you read below.
Do you want something with the same strength and passion as love, sex with a loved one, a strong and long relationship with him. God created us to love and be loved. We hear: "Love is a wonderful feeling," "Love rules the World." You drew attention to the name of this page precisely because despite the fact that you are sixteen years old or sixty, the words “love”, “sex” and “strong relationship” immediately affect the strings of your soul. These words occupy a leading position in the priority system of most people.
Advertising producers have long realized that it is possible to sell goods well, taking advantage of our concerns about love and sex. Sex is played in television commercials promoting beer, vodka, sausages. Without naked buttocks and navels, we cannot purchase a mobile phone and deodorant.
Guys, they use us! Our emotions are being manipulated!
How can we allow ourselves to do this? We are brainwashed by the media. We listen to thousands of songs, watch hundreds of films, read dozens of love affairs, which give us false ideas about what love, sex and strong relationships are. In our society, such an approach to relationships has spread that has led to disastrous results. Which one? See what marriage statistics in our country say:
Ukraine takes the 1st place in Europe in the number of divorces. Of 100 couples, 80 are divorced. These are 160 personal disasters;
By the number of abortions - III place in Europe. 80% of youth conceived a child before marriage. Of these, 60% are under the age of 18. 4 out of 10 teen pregnancies end in abortion. 15-16 year old girls become mothers.
Every year, 3 million adolescents become infected with sexually transmitted diseases.
Why is this happening? What is - very important - we lost indomitably trying to imitate the Hollywood standards of relationships? Why, when meeting an attractive person, we attach paramount importance to appearance and sexual attractiveness.
We, young boys and girls of the 21st century, today ask ourselves the question of where is the one who will become a true friend and beloved woman once and for all of life? And is this even possible?
We declare to you - it is possible! God, who created you for love and sex for your pleasure, has a clear plan on how to build relationships!
The one who intended you to love and be loved has also given wise instructions to help fulfill this destiny!
Christianity says that God gave the green light by creating sex for procreation and your pleasure.
But if God has given us taste sensations (which also brings people a lot of pleasure), this does not mean that we should become like pigs and eat whatever is horrible! So why do we allow ourselves to indiscriminately copulate? Why do we allow an unusually valuable gift to be poured from the vessel of love to the left and right?
Our parents can tell us how in the sixties of the last century the first, the so-called "sexual revolution" was born. What happened A small group of people went against the tide and challenged the existing “status quo”. They openly doubted the need for such a thing as “marital fidelity” and preached an alternative way of life - “free love” and “world peace”. They allowed themselves to express their views with music and art. They proudly bore the stigma of "radicals." They mixed natural youthful doubts and questions with a large dose of rebellion and created a life philosophy from this. The results were stunning. During the life of one generation (forty years), moral standards, values and traditions have completely changed. And what: broken hearts, broken families, unhappy children, sexually transmitted diseases, child prostitution, drug addiction, the complete degradation of aesthetic views.
Hey, the girl at the bar, with a cigarette in her hand and stupid, stopping, hungry eyes! Can you make a good guy happy with your love, dedication to your family? Can you give birth to healthy children?
Hey, kid, in dirty jeans lowered on his hips, with rings in all easy-to-reach places, with a bottle of beer in his hand and a bag full of bankruptcy, irresponsibility and unscrupulousness! Where are you going? Do you know what you want from life? You, the future father of the family. Do you remember what your name is today and what gender you belong to ?!
So what is the hope?
What has changed so quickly in one direction can be turned back! Steps taken in the dark can be done in the opposite direction, towards the light!
We can, if we also stand firmly for the truth, as the “sixties” stood for the lie!
What is the truth?
We urge you to start the second sexual revolution!
Do we really agree that we are aware that we are just a miserable burp of our much-praised freedom of relations! Are we consciously aware of the prospect of finding ruined families, the pain of loss and the miserable eyes of abandoned children, we will continue the path that was once imposed on us by someone! Who can order us to be unhappy, unloved, unrealized in the beautiful world of Love ?!
You ask what to do? Where to start?
Our thinking is one of the levers of this revolution.
The second sexual revolution must come simultaneously on three fronts.
We must work out for ourselves:
revolutionary view of human sexuality;
revolutionary idea of how to attract the opposite sex;
revolutionary attitude to the opposite sex.
The revolution begins with three radical statements:
Sex is holy
Sex is Serious
Sex is a big responsibility.
Radical statement No. 1. Sex is holy!
Sex is holy because it is a significant and valuable gift of God.
Sex is a special, deeply personal gift. In the Epistle to the Hebrews it is said: “Let the marriage of all be honest, and God will judge the bed of the immaculate fornicators and adulterers.”
Sex is holy because it gives us a unique opportunity to share our love with another person.
Sex is not just contact between separate parts of the body. This is a union of souls and hearts. This is a sacrament.
Sex was not intended to successfully advertise products or provoke cheap laughter. Sex was not intended to be taken lightly as entertainment.
Sex is holy!
Radical statement No. 2. Sex is serious!
Want to fight in our ranks on the side of God? Then admit that sex is serious! Or do you not believe that God blesses those who trust him and follow him? Or maybe you have a not very close relationship with the Lord? Then, hurry up (before it’s too late) to announce to him that you are in his team!
Ask yourself: who do I want to please? To someone who claims to love me today, or to the Creator, who always loves me, who conceived and created me with love, in whose will it is to bless my relationship with this "someone" or not to bless ..
If we turn to the “main operating manual” of our life - the Bible, we will learn something very important! When people unite in sexual intercourse, then, whether they want it or not, a strong bond is established between them. That's how serious sex is! This is not just a hobby or an “innocent pleasure”. Sexual intercourse binds people's lives. This is not a game. This is a decision that affects the rest of your life! Therefore, imagine the consequences in your life that you have sex with a prostitute ... And if you take into account that the sin is transmitted to children and grandchildren (as Adam’s sin still lies with all of us), then imagine what your children will receive!
We know that many of you, after reading all of the above, will say: “But I do not sleep with prostitutes. I live with my girlfriend in a civil marriage. What is the sin here? We love each other! And love is sacred! ”
We can disappoint you that this is a big self-deception!
One of the two of you must be fake. Why? Yes, he (she) is simply afraid that at any moment one of you may get up and leave, because you have no obligations to each other. Therefore, you try to please each other. You cannot tell each other the truth. You will always keep a part of your heart locked - because, despite the many positive aspects of your relationship, you both realize that they can break off at any time.
Maybe “just living together” at first seems like a tempting idea, but lasting relationships don't usually grow out of this. As a result, there are two options to end this “sweet story”:
You, having lived in a civil marriage, “having tried” each other, conclude that “this is not yours”. This man is not so perfect, he, it turns out, has flaws! He does not meet our expectations! He is not good enough for you ?!
“Well,” you say, “in any relationship, the risk is inevitable that love will pass.”
And start the next attempt, then another one ...
You still decided to get married. This is where it started! Everything that your companion was silent about and hid before marriage suddenly crawls out in his disgusting guise of the real essence of your loved one. Here she (he) will show you her “teeth”! And after two months (half a year, a year) you suddenly begin to see everything in a different light! The man whom you called your soul mate for life turns out to be unnecessary even for the next two days! Well, the premarital "rehearsal" did not help ?! Result: a ruined family, a child neglected. Your feelings are an open, bleeding wound. Congratulations! You have entered a new world for you - the world of divorced people. You can’t trust people for some time, it’s not easy to call you for frankness, you feel pain from past relationships. But your natural need for love again leads to the search for that special person whom you will cherish all your life. And he will cherish you. Of course he will be better than the previous chosen one! And the search begins! And again the “rehearsal” carefully lived together for some time ... Does history repeat itself ?!
We say no to this self-deception! We affirm that the Lord blesses a marriage between two people! He conceived a man like that! A man and a woman are one in God's plan!
You forgot that Eve was created in order to make up for what Adam lacked. So where is your dedication in love? Where is the desire to fill the "voids" of his chosen one? Where is the responsible decision to be together until death do us part?
But where does such a desire come from if we, when we enter into marriage, do not know anything about these “voids”. If we enter into marriage, we barely know the person on whom we pin our hopes for life. Taking the first outbreak of falling in love as love, trusting the occasion of their fate, two almost strangers, after the first meeting, already sleep together.
Please provide examples when this ended in happiness! Who in this case is your authority? A barely familiar cute guy (girl), or the One from whom you will subsequently beg forgiveness and help for yourself, your health, or for the life and health of your child?
So is it not better to immediately follow the path that the Lord has indicated? !!!
He is against sex before marriage! He will fill your sex with paints only on the matrimonial bed! He does not make vain promises, unlike our beloved, often unfamiliar and irresponsible people towards us!
Do not wait for a meeting with a “suitable” person! Become a “fit” person! Take responsibility for your relationship!
Follow the path that the Lord has indicated! And you will be happy!
We declare: sex before marriage will never be blessed! We are against erratic copulation outside the family, beyond prudence!
Join us! Since the creation of man, God has given man choice.
He is waiting for you to choose in His favor! And he will stand up for you in this world! It's never too late!
Do you think that a loving father can not forgive his child and obscure him with himself, seeing the child's remorse, his understanding and a cry for help?
Even if you stumbled, join in! He will support you!
But do not be surprised if your conflict with the world escalates when you decide to proclaim that sex is serious.
Radical statement No. 3. Sex is a big responsibility!
Until we learn to think about others, and not just about ourselves, we will not be able to join the revolution.
We are responsible for how we influence other people, for our sexual behavior. We are responsible for how we dress, what we say, and what promises we make.
The word responsibility itself implies that we will have to answer someone for everything we do!
The Lord gave us the body as a “temple” for our souls. Can we today, without being ashamed, hold before Him an answer for how we use the “temple” given to you.
Do you really believe that piercings and tattoos will help you attract a decent and reliable life partner ?! Funny, isn't it ?!
We want to share with you the most important principle of relations: you attract the same people as you are or try to seem!
We do not urge you to return to Puritan or Victorian moral standards — high-collar workers or chastity belts. But we recall that underwear is therefore called so that it is worn under basic clothing!
Girls! The lousy straps of the "string", proudly bulging out from under the lowered jeans, do not excite and do not attract! I would like to ask the owner of this “outfit”: “Have you washed at night, Desdemona”? (May the classic forgive us!) Who is hoping to attract such an undemanding representative of the fair sex ?!
Girls! We assure you that today, as before, as always, the “real hero” is attracted by modesty and chastity! If you are now taking a drag on a cigarette or pouring a potion into yourself more seriously, not caring about your health, the health of your future baby, then how can you expect that suddenly a caring and responsible person will be next to you ?!
Dear young man! When you make a bottle of beer as your idol, or take “harmless” steroids to increase muscle mass (which will make you sexy), or sometimes smoke weed, can you count on a serious, purposeful and interesting life partner? Do you believe that such a girl will be able to attract your "innocent" flirt with everything that moves? Will she want to connect life with you and become your support, become your real and only loving friend?
Nonsense! Miracles in life, of course, do happen, but they are very selective! Miracles strive for people who carry inner beauty and meaning!
Yes - to the inner beauty!
Yes - modesty!
Yes - chastity!